Sunday, October 10, 2010

I Learn to Detach....I have PEACE


I love every single bit of my life despite all the experience i have had since I was at a very young age. Those experiences have made me a wiser person. Problems are a not a problem actually if we look at it from a positive point of view. People always worry about things which are not there. They always worry about the future instead of the present. Whereas in actual fact, the root of future problems usually lies in the present.
And a lot of people also worry about the problem in the past. I always remind myself, the past will always be the past. Every day at midnight, "YESTERDAY" will hugged and waved goodbye to me and vowed to never come back into my life. In the past 41years..i have had 14965 "yesterdays" and none ever came back.
When we have worries and problems going around in our mind, we feel like there is a heavy weight holding us down. Sometimes, these mental problems build up slowly and we are not even aware of how much we are struggling to carry around. We can also feel powerless to deal with what we have.
Often the mind creates imaginary problems. It speculates on people’s motives and attitudes towards us, even on the flimsiest of evidence we build up fearful situations. These mental speculations are usually wrong, but, they can take up a lot of negative energy and make our mind feel cluttered.If we seek to make others miserable how can we expect to be happy ourselves? If we offer goodwill to other people this creates a powerful positive energy. Focusing on other people’s good qualities can definitely help improve our own state of mind.