Wednesday, March 21, 2012

To Allah and To Everyone I know, Please Forgive Me For All my wrong doing,

It is said that forgiveness is the sweetest revenge. To err is human and forgiving is divine. If you are not forgiven for any mistake done by you- known or unknown, you will feel the pain it causes. So, you can easily get to the higher position of divinity by forgetting and forgiving the mistakes of others

We humans are prone to making mistakes. It is no crime to make a mistake. Sometimes, in the flow of life we hurt others. Often we sleep over it and some other times we like to say sorry but move on. But, as the song goes, ‘sorry seems to be the hardest word’ and that is so true. Asking for forgiveness is a tough thing because it involves suppressing your ego. At the same time, forgiveness must be heartfelt because there is no felt saying sorry if you don’t mean that. One can also be not sure of forgiveness even if regret is expressed. But one should have heart pure and clean while apologizing.
 Before taking the initiative, one must be pretty sure of why he is sorry. Go behind the reasons and realize your mistake. Then only, the expression will be genuine. Fake apology mostly worsens the case so be very genuine about what you feel. There is one suggestion of writing down your apology. This will make you more comfortable. Writing also helps if the person is feeling embarrassed. One can send this written apology where it is intended. But its always better to meet person one to one and then apologize. One strong suggestion is to never to make any excuse while saying sorry. It does not really give a positive vibe. Avoid blame game and just be sincere. Rest assured, things will fall into place.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Salam, Ellie, dont worry, what many people did not realize is that to touch a dog is not a sin, it is Allah's creation..
Just to share during Rasulullah saw era, there was one prostitute, she ended into the Jannah because the give a dog to drink..
What many did not realize, touching a non muhrim is something even dirtier than touching a pig.. people nowadays are fine to see young non married couple holding hands, hugging in front of public, instead they are making such a big fuss when a person touches a dog, just to tell that only the saliva is haram, not the dog..
He knows best.. im praying for u sis..

THE BRAVEONE said...

Thank you for your comment. Really appreciate knowing someone agreed with me. I know this is neither mine nor ur opinion but it is what thought to us by our beloved Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. (pbuh).