It is said that forgiveness is the
sweetest revenge. To err is human and forgiving is divine. If you are
not forgiven for any mistake done by you- known or unknown, you will
feel the pain it causes. So, you can easily get to the higher position
of divinity by forgetting and forgiving the mistakes of others
We humans are prone to making mistakes.
It is no crime to make a mistake. Sometimes, in the flow of life we hurt
others. Often we sleep over it and some other times we like to say
sorry but move on. But, as the song goes, ‘sorry seems to be the hardest
word’ and that is so true. Asking for forgiveness is a tough thing
because it involves suppressing your ego. At the same time, forgiveness
must be heartfelt because there is no felt saying sorry if you don’t
mean that. One can also be not sure of forgiveness even if regret is
expressed. But one should have heart pure and clean while apologizing.
Before taking the initiative, one must
be pretty sure of why he is sorry. Go behind the reasons and realize
your mistake. Then only, the expression will be genuine. Fake apology
mostly worsens the case so be very genuine about what you feel. There is
one suggestion of writing down your apology. This will make you more
comfortable. Writing also helps if the person is feeling embarrassed.
One can send this written apology where it is intended. But its always
better to meet person one to one and then apologize. One strong
suggestion is to never to make any excuse while saying sorry. It does
not really give a positive vibe. Avoid blame game and just be sincere.
Rest assured, things will fall into place.
