Dear Sherry, Zue, Corrine and all my closest friends, this might not explain why I am the way I am, but if you guys read this journal, u guys will understand why i do things in certain ways.
All my life, I have been doing things the way others want me to do. I let every single soul around me to dictate my life. Because I am always afraid to make mistakes in my life. Afraid of the word "I TOLD U SO". I need all the support from my friends, hehehe though I dont have many. But you guys are the greatest andI love you guys so much
To forgive someone for their mistake is an art of living because the act of pardoning the individual can be healing and magical.
The deed eases our heart, frees our mind and moves us to a higher conscious level.
It is normal for everyone to get hurt by friends, colleagues, relatives or family members at some point of time owing to their actions, gestures and words as we are all human.
But what is more important is to forgive the person and forget the incident so that both the effected individual and a person responsible can enjoy peace of mind and have a happy relationship,
Clemency is probably the most difficult act to practice because even if we try to exercise forgiveness, we are often overwhelmed by our ego, fame, image and status.
Many people do not realize that our self-esteem means nothing to live life with hurt and pain in our hearts for not forgiving.
A person who is unable to forgive to forgive anyone for anything the individual had done to him/her in the past means "The affected person is living in a prison."
What happen if the person agrees to forgive but not forget the incident? The effects are the same because its vital than when you forgive a someone it should be done unconditionally so that you enjoy total freedom because you have released all your hurt.
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