I just realise that being single and on your own isnt bad at all. I was driving back after work at 5 in the morning, all alone on the road not many cars at this hour, suddenly the thought of "Glad that I'm single and alone" just make me feel good.I dont have to explain to anyone why i had to work so late and i don't have anyone waiting for me at home with their long face.Not after i have a long hard day at work.
Even if you find the perfect person that makes you happier, if you aren’t with yourself, it won’t work.
So, first at all, you have to relize what really is important to you, what really makes you feel better, and try to be the most satisfy as you can doing things for yourself… How? It depends only of you.
Consequently, you alredy will be happy alone (the idea “me, myself and I”), and probably you won’t need someone to be in that way, but then, suddenly a good person will enter in your life (or this person is alredy there and you couldn’t see him), and make you happier that you are, will complete you more than you could imagine…
You know, both will share good things, and will be the best thing!
But you also can realize that when you are alone but happy, is so much better than be with someone and unhappy… So pay attention!
Another good thing! I really think that when you are happy alone, you won’t search for someone, you know? Like “Find/search”? Is not like that, things will happen naturally, by the time that you’ve never imagined and waited :D(i know that is the worst thing say: “You don’t have to wait ‘cause it's not worth… ” But is real!)Actually, there is wonderful text in portuguese that the key statement is: “Cuide do seu jardim, que as borboletas virão…”
That would be almost like : “Take care of your garden so that beautiful butterflies will apper there…”The point is: You won’t need to search, if you’re in a ‘good mood’, good things will come to you… ;D Some singles are perfectly happy being just that: happily single.Unfortunately, society puts so much pressure on singles - especially women - to be in relationships that people forget that they have to be happy with themselves in order to be happy with someone else. That applies to friendships as well as intimate relationships.
Happy singles:
• Aren't obsessed with having kids or being married.
• Don't receive many phone calls after 9 p.m. They end their day in peace and quiet, not on the phone having a conversation with a dramatic friend.
• Are health conscious, believing exercise and a healthy diet give them balance and boost self-esteem.
• Love themselves and take full responsibility for their bad choices.
• Never compromise their standards.
• Are not content with what they accomplished yesterday but are always looking forward to what's next.
• Live life to the fullest, treating strangers with kindness, are optimistic about everything and have a zest for life.
• Don't define themselves by how much money they earn or their level of education.
• Understand the difference between being religious and being spiritual.
• Associate with other happy and positive people.
• They have mastered the art of being alone.
• They look forward to spending Friday night curled up with a good book or just watching movie marathon.
• When you call, they don't answer because the phone has been unplugged.
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